Assume all politicians are narcissist.
Even the one’s I vote for. I do not trust them. I will not spend much energy defending them. That’s why I love the design of checks and balances in our government. It’s tough to get a bunch of narcissists to agree with eachother.
Same goes for most people in the entertainment biz.
The only exception is when I hear a blatant misrepresentation. For example, my two word defense to people who call Rush Limbaugh racist is “prove it”. He may be. I don’t know. I can’t get into his mind to see what he really thinks. But, to make that judgement I need evidence.
If I catch myself falling for one of these guys (Sarah Palin), I remind myself of my key rule. Sarah wrote a book with a big picture of her on the cover. I’m sure I’ll read it. Good for her. I’m sure she wrote really good things. But, there’s a big picture of her on the cover. She’s a narcissist.
Now, I can already hear some asking, “aren’t you a hypocrite? You tell others to prove Rush is racist, but you assume all politicians are racist.”
For that, I’d give you some credit. However, I’d point out that my rule is, first and foremost, a defense mechanism meant to keep me from getting too disappointed when humans turn out to be humans.
Second, I can believe someone is a narcissist, but still hear them out on their beliefs about how the world works and decide whether I agree or not. It would not be easy to do that with someone who I believe is a racist, which is the exact reason why people call Rush racist. Those people don’t want you to listen to what he has to say.